You have to work hard to develop it, but your efforts will certainly pay off in the end.
Adopting the ironman pattern is one of the first things you need to do in order to make your mindpower of the mind more powerful. This pattern is all about staying unaffected by influences coming from other people.
A lot of people do not grasp the idea behind this technique, so I think I should clarify it. The ironman pattern is not about pretending to be unaffected by the words and actions of others.
You may not show any signs that you have been affected, but if you are on the inside, this will prevent you from exercising mind control. You have to exercise control over your mindpower of the mind so that you can focus entirely on your persuasion literally making other influences bounce back from you.
Becoming the leader in your social group is another way of developing the power mind that you should use. Leadership gives you a two-fold advantage.
Firstly, in your subconscious mind, you are more powerful and more influential than everyone else. More importantly, everyone else feels your supremacy subconsciously.
Becoming a leader cannot happen overnight, so you have to work hard for it. Use all of the tools and techniques for persuasion that you know in order to get to this position. Just keep in mind that your actions have to be consistent.
Remember that once you are a leader, you will be able to influence anyone effectively and not only people from your social circle.