The reality is that this task is not easy at all. That is why you should learn how to master your skills to apply them more effectively. The following tips will certainly help you.
1) Learn each language pattern by writing down many different versions.
A pattern is relatively easy to remember. It is also relatively easy to remember the examples given with it. However, you will notice that it is fairly difficult to come up with a relevant line based on the pattern in real life situation.
That is why you should learn every new pattern by writing different versions that you can use in conversations with your loved ones, coworkers and acquaintances. Those who know how to use mind control do this and it works excellently for them, so it should work for you too.
2) Focus on what the other person says and remember his words.
Usually, during a conversation, we process what the other person says and interpret it quickly so that we can have an adequate reply. You cannot do this, when you are trying to influence the person to do what you want. Those who know how to use mind control now this.
You need to pay great attention to the words of the person, so that you can use them for building rapport and then for pacing and leading.
Just try to prevent your thoughts from flowing when the other person speaks. Focus on listening and remembering what he says, as if you are asked to repeat his story later on.